Monday, September 1, 2014

Beware Of These Factors That Can Destroy Your Life

The more we live the more we learn and the more challenges we face. If you’re not learning as you grow, I guess you don’t belong to the planet- Earth.

Life can be sweet and at the same time sour as an old wound. If you don’t know some key facts about it, you will find it hard to get along.

Life is built on so many principles, by the time one start growing you will get to know those principles one by one.  But you have to be careful of some key factors if you really want to live a stunningly great life. And these factors will be discussed below:


Environment is one of the factors that can affect your life in a negative way. Then I used to think that it’s a lie when someone says “the environment you stay” matters a lot. As times goes on I realize how true it is to stay in an environment that can hasten the growth of one’s life.

If you live in a place that’s full of shit, a place where all they know is about negativity, tell me how it won’t make you feel like a shit and make you always fall for the negative side of life? There’s no how you won’t get affected.

Beware of the environment you stay, if you notice that the environment you find yourself in is not helping your life, I mean it’s not impacting your life in a positive way, I will advice you to change environment so that you won’t bite your tongue as time goes on.


Beware of the people whom you call your friends. Choose your friends carefully so that you won’t blame yourself as time goes on. “Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are” friends can break you and make you, it’s just like love.

If you should hang out with friends who are not your level, friends who don’t believe in your dream, friends who can’t support you for once, instead, all they keep doing is critizing you and mocking you, I doubt if you will end up being a great person you want to be.

Surround yourself with people who believe in your dream, people who will have your back when your fall down. Life is too short to be spent in the company of fools. Hang out with people who will be there for you when you need them, people who you will be there for them when they need you. That’s how you can get to live a great stunningly life.


People who you seek advice from can do more harm than good to your life. That’s why it’s mandatory for everyone to know the kind of person he or she will seek advice from.

If you are an entrepreneur and you’re seeking an advice from an employee, how will you grow? I doubt if it will have a positive impact on you or your business. Stop listening to the people who only talk the talk and won’t work the walk. People who can only tell you what to do but they themselves are scared to follow the path they told you to pass.

Beware of these kinds of people so that you won’t hit the bad end on the long run. Choose your advisors wisely. Get feedback or advice from them. It’s up to you to filter out the ones that won’t be of great help to you and stick to the ones that will help you out.


Don’t be surprise that YOU is part of the list. Yeah, you are also one of the factors that can affect your life badly. If you keep thinking negatively and not positively, don’t you think you’re doing more harm to yourself than good?

To make it big in this life, you have to follow your guts, think positive and believe in yourself. If you can’t do that I doubt if you will live a stunningly great life. Listen to people, but do what is in your mind.

You should know that you’re the person who is holding yourself back from sitting on the throne you deserve. Be proactive and take control of your life. If you believe that you can make it big, you will surely make it big, but if you think otherwise then you will get the other result. So watch what you think because your thought is what you’re today.


Though there are numerous factors that can affect your life but the ones listed above should be taken seriously. Because they are the common ones, they are the ones that matters a lot.  Stay away from those bad factors and learn to stay with the things that will help your life on the long run.  

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