Monday, September 1, 2014

The Four Elements You Must Have If You Want To Succeed

Life is built on so many principles, laws of different kinds, but with that, there are ones you should stick to. I mean the elements you should stay glued to. And try to work on them, as you grow you will get better.

There’s no big deal in making it big in life, it just depends on how you see life itself. Life can be sweet and at the same time boring. But your attitude towards it will determine what you will get from life.

There are no shortcuts in making it big in life, one have to really work hard in order to get to where he or she wants to be. but there are something’s that will guide you through that process in order to overcome any challenges or obstacles that might be on the way. Those four elements are discussed below:


If you’re not confident enough in this life, you will be thrown at the back seat of life and no one will notice 
you. Confidence is one of the skills every man must possess if he wants to become successful in life.
Being self confident is one of the things I learned the hard way in life. I used to be a guy with very low self esteem. Until of recent when I noticed that if you’re not bold enough to face your fears, challenge the norm you can’t get anywhere in life.

In anything you do in this life, you just have to build the self confidence in you. Be bold and don’t be scared of facing your fear, scared of look at your enemies in the face, don’t be scared of spitting back at any obstacles that spit on your face. You have nothing to lose.

Thinking that you have something to lose will always holds you back from not challenging the norm. if you’re the type of person who is not confident enough to challenge the norm, I will advice you to start working on it. 

I’m also not done with it, I’m working on it. And every day I am getting closer to my goal.

The more effort you put into nurturing that skill the closer you will get to your goal. Be bold and don’t be scared of facing your fears!


In this world, there are a lot of distractions. There’s no how you won’t be distracted by life’s drama. In order to get less distracted by life drama, you must be self disciplined.

It is easy to get caught by one or two distractions that will disturb you from carry out the day’s operation that will add value to your life.  The moment you get distracted, that’s the beginning of the time you’re wasting on things that won’t add value to your life. By the time you recover from distraction, you won’t have enough zeal to carry out the day activities.

To get rid of distractions of any kind, one must be self disciplined. You must develop that habit of being self disciplined because without that I doubt if you will be having a fulfilled day in your life.

Developing the self discipline skills is not a day job, you just have to keep working on it everyday so that you will master that act.

Follow Your Guts

I’m sure you must have heard about this so many times? To be successful in life you must be ready to trust your intuition for once and follow the path it leads you.

When people doubt your ability to build something or people are expecting you to take that route, you must always listen to your inner voice and follow your guts. Don’t bother yourself about what the outcome will be.

Why let other people’s opnion let you down when you know you truly believein something? For instance, you’re trying to build a certain product that will impact the life of people, nut people are critizing you and dumping the idea but in your inner mind, you know there’s something that’s telling you to go for it. Instead of you to listen to your inner mind and go for it, you decided to shut it down and listen to what people are saying. So you choose not to work on the idea just because of what people have said.

If you’re the kind of person who let other people’s opinion hurt his or her decision, I doubt if you will succeed in life. Pay no mind to people, they are not God and they don’t know if exactly your product will make it or not, they can only guess.

Learn to follow your guts and never pay attention to what people say. Have the courage and see where the path leads you.


If you really want to be successful in life, you just have to keep holding on. In this life “Nothing good comes easy” if you’re not getting the result you want, you just have to keep holding on.

When you fail the first time, try and work on your failure and give it a try again,,,  remember that “A winner never quit” it’s only when you quit that’s when you’re now consider as a failure.

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